One of the significant hallmarks of our wheel is that for all eight components Powerful Affirming Love must be at their core.
Not just any old LOVE, the love that is required must be POWERFUL, not a wispy little puff out of the corner of your mouth. The love should conform to that hard-to-achieve-type of love, unconditional love.
It must AFFIRM your child, partner, friend, even yourself, always. Affirming one of the above is not always easy to do, especially when they are making your life a misery.
Always "Catchem Doing Good" rather than catching them doing the wrong thing. Express how "thrilled" you are when something is done correctly. Nothing breeds success like success.
Affirming someone close to you breeds a powerful drive tio succeed and to do the right thing. Once this is embedded the eagerness to succeed and to be the best you can be at the time becomes impossible to refuse,
It becomes an outstanding way to live, and it motivates others around you.
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